How to finish college applications without going bonkers? The family chimes in.

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After the frenzy of the past few weeks, our house is relatively calm. There will be more college-related tension to come, but for now, the pressure has lifted.

In a quiet moment, I cannot help thinking about the students — and their families  — still working their way through the ridiculously obtuse elements of the Common App, some college supplements, and some college websites. Once you’ve added the roller-coaster dynamics of the parent-teen relationship, the high emotions involved with the entire process, and the impending deadline for regular admissions:  yikes.

Just in case this might help:

For questions about the Common App, start with their Common Questions for Applicants here.

With questions for a particular college, take a look first at its admissions blog, if it has one. For example:

Still polishing essays or short-answers? Parents cannot write anything for you, but they can proofread, read essays aloud, double-check word- or character-counts.

Sometimes, the most helpful step is to walk away from the job for five minutes. Here’s what people in this house would do…

From Mod Squad Julie:  “I would go outside and shoot baskets for five minutes. The only thing is, I would probably stay longer than that.” Parent response: “What, you’d shoot until someone asked you to come back in and get to work?” Julie: “No, I usually say to myself I’ll go back to work after I make the next shot. Then once I’ve made it, I think: that felt good, let me do that again.”

From Mod Squad Linc:  “Take the dog outside and chase her around the house a few times. Wait. Pete’s done, right?”

From Mod Squad Pete:  “Take a music break, especially if you have a record player. Put an album on. I would recommend On Green Dolphin Street, by the Miles Davis Quintet.” [Whoops, there go ten minutes.]

From Mod Squad Dad:  “Get some exercise and fresh air — take a short, fast walk.”

From me:  Take a quick food break — make a smoothie, grab a handful of nuts to munch on. Then sit back down and plow through to the finish line — that will bring lots of positive energy.

Good luck to all!

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